<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post5155350302806034138..comments</id><updated>2009-11-17T09:38:02.140-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on The 3 R's Blog // Reading, 'Riting, and Randomness: Picture this: a modern family portrait</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/feeds/5155350302806034138/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html'/><author><name>Florinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09789402061034734894</uri><email>3.rsblog@gmail.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-8851415122036639150</id><published>2009-11-17T09:38:02.140-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-17T09:38:02.140-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Vanessa (ChefDruck) - You never know what's going ...</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;Vanessa (ChefDruck)&lt;/b&gt; - You never know what&amp;#39;s going to get their attention for syndication, so I&amp;#39;m pleasantly surprised that this post did :-).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Wendy (Literary Feline)&lt;/b&gt; - You&amp;#39;re posing some really good questions. I think it probably varies depending on how close the people in question were during the marriage. I&amp;#39;m friends with my ex-husband&amp;#39;s sister and sometimes still refer to her as my sister-in-law, even though she hasn&amp;#39;t been that for over seven years. To some extent, I really believe that we can choose &lt;i&gt;some&lt;/i&gt; of the people we consider &amp;quot;family.&amp;quot; But having said that...depending on how they get along now, taking down that picture of your brother and his ex before he visits with his new girlfriend is probably not a bad idea :-).</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/8851415122036639150'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/8851415122036639150'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258479482140#c8851415122036639150' title=''/><author><name>Florinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09789402061034734894</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17571040780133141708'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-701409840623823770</id><published>2009-11-16T21:11:33.675-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T21:11:33.675-08:00</updated><title type='text'>I think the last formal picture of my family was w...</title><content type='html'>I think the last formal picture of my family was when I was a wee child.  Most of the photos since then are amateur shots.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Families are quite diverse and it is good that that is being more recognized now--I imagine there&amp;#39;s still a ways to go yet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I admit I struggle over what to call my brother&amp;#39;s ex-wife&amp;#39;s son.  Is he still my nephew?  I never really knew him and so don&amp;#39;t feel that family connection, and yet I don&amp;#39;t want to dismiss him outright since he was a part of my brother&amp;#39;s life for several years (the nephew is an adult now).  Which reminds me, I need to take their family photo down before my brother and his new girlfriend visit . . . I&amp;#39;m not sure why I&amp;#39;m rambling about this.  Weren&amp;#39;t we talking about photos?  LOL&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Congratulations on being syndicated!  How cool is that?!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/701409840623823770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/701409840623823770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258434693675#c701409840623823770' title=''/><author><name>Literary Feline</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13079276242303738719</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-3301986402420096707</id><published>2009-11-16T20:17:57.595-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T20:17:57.595-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats on getting picked up for syndication. I l...</title><content type='html'>Congrats on getting picked up for syndication. I loved the post over at LA MB and I&amp;#39;m not surprised they loved it too!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/3301986402420096707'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/3301986402420096707'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258431477595#c3301986402420096707' title=''/><author><name>ChefDruck</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01581859830585809291</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='14216560712611134143'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-7808704766899811228</id><published>2009-11-16T19:56:31.165-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T19:56:31.165-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Eva - Well, OK, technically he's not an in-law yet...</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;Eva&lt;/b&gt; - Well, OK, technically he&amp;#39;s not an in-law &lt;i&gt;yet&lt;/i&gt;, so I think you can make a case...for now. But spouses and kids are just where it starts to get complicated :-).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;April&lt;/b&gt; - Thanks - and thanks for being the only one who commented on it at LA Moms (until today, when my mother-in-law stopped by)!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Tracy (Gentle Reader)&lt;/b&gt; - Are you folks using a wide-angle lens to get everyone in to the picture :-)? Extended family can be confusing to explain anyway - blending just adds another level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mike&lt;/b&gt; - It&amp;#39;s only my second time getting picked up for syndication in over a year of posting at LA Moms Blog; I don&amp;#39;t think it&amp;#39;ll go to my head. (April&amp;#39;s had more posts picked up than I have :-).)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We never get pictures of everyone together at the kids&amp;#39; parties. It may be just as well.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/7808704766899811228'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/7808704766899811228'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258430191165#c7808704766899811228' title=''/><author><name>Florinda</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09789402061034734894</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='17571040780133141708'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-6726578247138734668</id><published>2009-11-16T17:19:03.410-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T17:19:03.410-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats on the syndication. If you keep this up y...</title><content type='html'>Congrats on the syndication. If you keep this up you&amp;#39;re going to be too big for this blog stuff. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;my family was like that as a kid, too. We have very few pictures of all of us from that time. Probably none. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/6726578247138734668'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/6726578247138734668'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258420743410#c6726578247138734668' title=''/><author><name>Mike</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03125852166745378716</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='11931941562645850087'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-1595508958158103894</id><published>2009-11-16T16:31:08.547-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T16:31:08.547-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats on the syndication--how cool!  Every summ...</title><content type='html'>Congrats on the syndication--how cool!  Every summer when we get together with my husband&amp;#39;s family, we take an insane family portrait that gets bigger every year.  Not a lot of emotional baggage with the actual picture-taking, but certainly complicated relationships to explain when showing the picture to anyone :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/1595508958158103894'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/1595508958158103894'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258417868547#c1595508958158103894' title=''/><author><name>Gentle Reader</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09102364083044797155</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09135883765532539089'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-204214548898595208</id><published>2009-11-16T10:40:52.246-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T10:40:52.246-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Congrats on this being picked up for syndication!!...</title><content type='html'>Congrats on this being picked up for syndication!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/204214548898595208'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/204214548898595208'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258396852246#c204214548898595208' title=''/><author><name>April</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/12051174636017409935</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='10484490863257533950'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-2321637482826553454</id><published>2009-11-16T10:29:16.981-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-16T10:29:16.981-08:00</updated><title type='text'>We're having a problem with family portraits this ...</title><content type='html'>We&amp;#39;re having a problem with family portraits this year too, because my sister is engaged and she and her fiancee have a daughter, but I want a FAMILY portrait, which in my mind doesn&amp;#39;t include the fiancee.  (Yes, I realise this probably makes me bratty, lol.)  But how to do that w/o hurting his feelings? *sigh*  I can imagine it&amp;#39;d be more complicated for a blended family like yours. :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/2321637482826553454'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/5155350302806034138/comments/default/2321637482826553454'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html?showComment=1258396156981#c2321637482826553454' title=''/><author><name>Eva</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06703372903532502944</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.3rsblog.com/2009/11/picture-this-modern-family-portrait.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3177722328294970217.post-5155350302806034138' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3177722328294970217/posts/default/5155350302806034138' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>