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Friday, March 16, 2012

Friday Foto: Time Capsule! The Very First Post


I can't actually re-create my very first blog post. The original URL no longer exists, since I switched to a custom domain in 2008. I've changed templates a couple of times during the last five years, and Blogger doesn't even seem to have my original "Minima" template available any more.

However, using my stripped-down "test blog," I've come up with a decent facsimile of what went up in this space five years ago today. Clearly, I had a LONG way to go...

Yesterday I reflected, and on Sunday I'll celebrate with you all (hint: giveaways!), but on my actual fifth Blogiversary, I'm just putting up a virtual milestone.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

This Veteran Reflects on a Milestone Blogiversary

This is published post #1668, dated March 15, 2012. Post #1 was published on March 16, 2007. That averages out to .91 posts per day over five years.

Five years of blogging! Who saw THAT coming? Five years ago, it certainly wasn't me. And sometimes I still feel like a newbie who's playing catch-up, and will always be a few steps behind no matter what; the online world changes so fast. On the other hand, I've seen a lot of "what goes around, comes around" over the course of five years--plenty of fads, lots of blogs started and retired, and some things that have stuck around. With that experience behind me, it's easier to take the changes as they come...and to decide which ones I'll let pass me by. With experience comes a better sense of what works for me, and what doesn't.

I started this blog to keep a record of the books I read and my thoughts about them. If I'd known about GoodReads before that first post, I might never have published it, since that would have served my purposes just fine. But I'm glad I didn't know about it (GR was barely two months old then, so I'm not sure how many people knew about it then anyway), because I really can't imagine what the last five years would have been like without this blogging adventure--it's taken me so far beyond my original intentions.

Or maybe it hasn't. "Reading, 'Riting, and Randomness" was always intended to be a mission statement (although it wasn't always a tagline).

It took me a while to find my place in the blogiverse. My explorations led me on a side trip into the land of the mom-bloggers, and part of me has stayed there--that part is primarily local, and those relationships were the first to transition from online to off-line. Bloggers like Donna and April and Kim and Jessica are fellow blogging veterans (April started a few months after I did, and the others were there ahead of us both) who are still in the trenches and nowhere close to running out of things to say (although Jessica admits she sometimes does think about quitting--but if she did, I suspect she'd come back.)

Finding my book-blogging tribe wasn't so easy at first, although it was definitely out there. I began looking through BlogHer ("where the women bloggers are"), and although there weren't as many book bloggers there as I'd hoped (still aren't, but it's growing!), I did find Sassymonkey (Karen), who still holds down the fort of the Books section and is one of my favorite people to see at conferences (next up: BEA/BBC 2012!) Booking Through Thursday was another good place to look (and I suspect it still is, although I haven't played along with them for quite a while), and (I think) that's where I met Literary Feline (Wendy), who has the dubious distinction of being my oldest book-blogging friend.

I may not have found them right away--and I found many of them with the aid of our still-missed community-builder, Dewey (the link goes nowhere now, but I'm including it anyway)--but I'm glad that so many of the book bloggers who were doing this when I started (and in some cases had a head start) are still around. Suey and Word Lily (Hannah) both started their blogs the same week I did--Happy Blogiversary to you both! Wendy was just about a month ahead of us. Softdrink (Jill) was already posting her "fizzy thoughts," and Andi had been carrying out (Estella's) Revenge for well over a year. (And I know I'm missing some--I'm not leaving you out on purpose, but it has been five years and I don't remember everything!)

The book-blogging world has grown a lot--and grown up just a bit, even as it seems that the newcomers are younger and younger and the most favored book category to blog about is Young Adult--since I first entered it. Book Blogger Appreciation Week has blossomed from a virtual party that our friend Amy hosted on her own blog to a much-anticipated annual event where hundreds of us get to know each other better and recognize the best among us.

BBAW, Blog Hops, Readathons, Bloggiestas...you might not expect people who are so into books to be so into group activities too, but book bloggers do love to mingle with one another, even if they're miles--or continents--apart. I was present at the creation of the "virtual convention" Armchair BEA two years ago, when a group of us who weren't going to the expo and the first Book Blogger Con decided we should "do something of our own," and worked up a blog development/networking/book-discussion event that really took off--and it's coming back in 2012 (even though several of its founders are actually going to BEA/BBC this year, we love this event too much to let it go)!

I've seen what happens when book blogging opens opportunities like it has for Trish and Lisa, who have built on relationships with bloggers, publisher reps, and authors to become the leaders in virtual book tours. I've seen what happens when authors blog, and when book bloggers champion authors like Beth Kephart, and I've seen things come full circle when bloggers author books (and once spent a couple of hours in an airport with Anna Lefler long before she started on that journey) whose books get attention on the blogs.

Blogging has opened up some opportunities for me, too. I get to pick and choose among the review offers that come my way now. I get paid for some of them--and when I don't, it seems like I prefer the books I pick on my own to the ones that others want to pick for me. I get to write in other places sometimes. I've had some chances to be a leader. And now that my employer has discovered social media ("like" their page, would you please?) I don't feel like I have to keep my social-media self under wraps at work (although I will only very rarely bring my work around here).

One of the defining features of the online world is that it seems to celebrate and nurture the new. It's very easy to get started, and bloggers love to help one another find their footing. But there seem to be fewer resources out there once we've got some experience behind us...although we still need and want that support. It's a big part of what keeps a veteran blogger in the force and out of retirement.

I might decide to turn out the lights here one day; if and when that happens, I'd like to feel that I had a pretty good run. I've seen the landscape change over the past five years, and I haven't always been sure of my place in it. Sometimes it's been challenging to keep doing it my own way and not play by the new rules, and it can be hard to accept that such a decision means that I may not find myself with much of a place in it at all. But as I said earlier, having seen those changes has helped me understand that the only right way to blog is the way that feels right to me. I think getting to that acceptance is probably part of attaining blogger maturity...and even after five years, sometimes I’m still not very mature.

But I'm glad I'm still here. I hope to stay a while longer.
NaBloPoMo March 2012

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

A Blogiversary party to plan...

...and a linkish placeholder post today. Blame NaBloPoMo for my not taking the day off entirely, since I was sick yesterday. i'm feeling a little better and will be back at work today, but I haven't felt up to much in the way of thinking and writing for the last few days.

But I need to get up to speed soon, because I've got a five-year Blogiversary party to plan! The actual Big Day is this Friday, and the party will be held here on Sunday. On the eve of the event, I plan to post a few reflections tomorrow--but there may be fewer than I'd intended, depending on how I'm feeling today!

March is a great month for a blog birthday! Suey at It's All About Books is also celebrating her fifth Blogiversary this week. Jenn's blog, Jenn's Bookshelves, turned four last week, and she reflected on a few things she wished she'd known back when she started.

This post is also a preview of a mini-challenge I'm hosting during
Bloggiesta later this month (are you signed up yet?) about mobile apps for bloggers (as you'll see at the very end)--do you have any favorites? Tell me in the comments, and I'll check 'em out! And as an iPad/iPhone user, I'd particularly appreciate your suggestions for other platforms.


Quote of the Day, one of many provocative statements made by author Rex Pickett in a conversation with author Caroline Leavitt:
"(T)he good news about the Internet is that it'll give everyone a voice; the bad news about the Internet is that it gives everyone a voice."
It's certainly given me one. What do you think?

- Posted using BlogPress from my iPad

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Blogger's Choice! Lose One: Words or Pictures?

Prompt for Friday, March 9, 2012:

More either-or, but this one's a pretty easy call for me: I'd handle losing the photos much better than losing the blog.

That brings up another question: do you back up your blog regularly? I need to set some sort of schedule for that, because I'm quite sure that I'm overdue. I'll do that tonight. I'm just days from my fifth blogiversary, and losing nearly 1700 posts' worth of book reviews, travel records, editorializing, and personal history now would be cosmically ugly timing.

Granted, the question is made a little more complicated by that fact that, like many other bloggers, quite a few of my posts are topic-specific online photo albums (and that's not even counting dedicated features like Friday Foto). I've documented a variety of events here--from book signings to family vacations and local travels to Comic-Con to blogger meet-ups--in a mix of words and pictures, and I think those posts are more effective because they have pictures. I've also discovered that I really enjoy playing around with photo-editing software and apps, --although I'll never be the Photoshop guru that my husband is--and I like that the blog gives me an excuse to do that.

Having said that, my Photoshop guru is one reason I'd be OK with losing the pictures. Tall Paul is the photographer in our family; aside from the fact that his photos are better-composed and higher quality than mine, he almost always has more pictures of anything than I do. As long as he doesn't lose his photographs, we'll be fine.

There are long stretches of my life that aren't recorded in photographs--and there are some years that I'm quite happy aren't documented that way, because I'd really rather not look back at them. Maybe I'm looking at this from the wrong angle, though; maybe my photographs really aren't so much for me, and I should be more concerned about preserving them for the next generation. And maybe it's wrong that I'm not. But for me, the thousand words are worth more. What about for you?
NaBloPoMo March 2012

Monday, March 12, 2012

Blogger's Choice! Pick One: Readers or Comments?

Prompt for Wednesday, March 7, 2012:
Would you rather have more blog readers or more blog comments?
The theme for NaBloPoMo this month is "Whether," and most of the writing prompts so far have posed either-or questions. Such questions are not among my favorite things--I've always preferred multiple-choice to true-or-false (or the equivalent). Some people take a more black-and-white perspective on life, but I'm more into the shades of gray.

Having said that, I'm taking today's either-or question under careful consideration, and I'm going to come down on the side of...more readers.

Yeah, I'm a little surprised too. Aren't bloggers supposed to crave comments? Aren't comments what keep us doing this? Don't we lament the toll that Facebook and Twitter and feed readers have taken on comment-section interaction? On that note, were you aware of Blogger Comment Club, a new site dedicated to bringing back the lost art of "visit and comment"?
We realized there was a need and desire for blogging to get back to the basics. Once upon a time, blogging was about supporting each other through comments. That’s how we bloggers got to know each other and build friendships. Now, we have a tendency to do the shortcut, we Tweet and Facebook “like” to show our appreciation because it’s quick and easy.
Us bloggers, we aren’t loving that. We are longing for the good old days of comments and friendship...We have a firm belief that blogging is missing something. And that something is comments.
I like the idea behind Blogger Comment Club, but I don't know if it's a commitment I can make right now. Some days I feel like I'm barely keeping up my commitment to responding to comments here on my own blog, and when it comes to other people's blogs, I don't tend to comment unless I actually have something to say in response to a post--a question, an observation, an expression of thanks. I rarely leave comments of the "hey, I was here" variety; I find them less than satisfying.

I also consider sharing links on Twitter and Facebook--and, increasingly, discussing the linked posts on those sites--a form of "indirect commenting," which offers the additional benefit of potentially exposing those posts to readers who might not see them otherwise. It takes less time than commenting, but to me, it's an equally thoughtful response--I'm glad to do it, and just as glad to be on the receiving end of it!

My goal here has always been to post consistently interesting content that people want to read often, and I'm far more driven to attract subscribers than random "hits" from search traffic. I don't think anyone whose blog isn't kept private is truly blogging just for him- or herself--if we didn't want to have our words be seen by other people, we wouldn't be doing this, would we? I love comments as a way to get to know some of my readers, but I know the majority will rarely or never leave comments. That's OK, as long as they keep reading--and maybe, they'll like what they read enough to share some links every now and then with other readers!

Is it ironic if I ask for your answer in the comments: Which would you rather--readers or comments?

NaBloPoMo March 2012

Sunday, March 11, 2012

Sunday Salon: Indie Lit Awards Preview

The Sunday Salon.com

We're a week away from revealing the winners of the 2011 Indie Lit Awards, and the panels who will choose those books have been busily reading and discussing their short lists for the last few weeks. We've been asked not to post our reviews of these books until after the big announcement; look for those starting on March 19, but I'd like to introduce the finalists in my category, Biography/Memoir. These books have already had the honor of just being nominated, and represent several facets of the category.

  • The "stunt" memoir (a/k/a "I'm going to do this thing for X amount of time, and write a book about it"): a woman who read--and blogged about--a book a day for one year
Tolstoy and the Purple Chair: My Year of Magical Reading
Nina Sankovitch
From books to blog and back again, Nina Sankovitch chronicles her “year of magical reading” in Tolstoy and the Purple Chair. In describing it that way, Sankovitch intentionally references Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking; this is a time of healing from loss, as she turns to books--reading one each day, every day for one year, and writing about it on her blog Read All Day--to help her make sense of life following the death of her beloved sister from an aggressive form of cancer.
If you didn’t know what was motivating Nina to undertake this project, it would be easy to envy this stay-at-home mother of four sons for having the luxury of spending the bulk of her days reading and blogging for an entire year. And once you do know her motivation for it...well, it’s still hard not to be just a little envious, but that’s greatly tempered by compassion. This isn’t a vacation--Nina is not taking a year off from her family or domestic responsibilities to bury herself in books. It’s not a vague, idealistic quest for “self-improvement” either--this is focused, or as she describes it, “intense.” This is reading as therapy.
  • The "life-changing experience" memoir (a/k/a "I did this thing I never thought I'd do"): a man who found a mission in a children's home in Nepal
Little Princes: One Man's Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal
Conor Grennan
At the beginning of a year of traveling around the world, and with very little idea of what he was getting into, Conor Grennan worked as a volunteer at the Little Princes Children’s Home in Godawari, Nepal for a few weeks. He hadn’t known what to expect, and he certainly hadn’t expected to be as affected by the experience as he was, but he quickly grew attached to the eighteen orphans who lived there and promised to come back as soon as he could. That wasn’t till over a year later, and on his return visit, he stayed longer and expanded the scope of his work. He’d learned that most of the children at Little Princes weren’t truly orphans; they’d been recovered from a child trafficker. Parents in the remote, impoverished northern regions of Nepal would give over their children in the belief that they’d get education and opportunities in Kathmandu, never knowing that they were being sold as laborers in the city or ending up on the streets. The city’s numerous children’s homes couldn’t help enough of them. There was no social-services system to protect them, let alone get them back home, but Conor was determined to do something about that. He could raise money...and he could make the difficult journey, largely on foot, into northern Nepal to track down families, beginning with those of the Little Princes.
  • The "memoir that started out as a biography": a man whose drive to tell the story of his grandfather shaped his own story
I Pray Hardest When I'm Being Shot At
Kyle Garret
The title of I Pray Hardest When I’m Being Shot At was provided by retired three-war veteran Robert Stuart, who was intended to be the subject of the book. However, the book’s author is Stuart’s grandson, Kyle Garret...and along the way, the book became at least as much about him, and how he went about writing a book about his grandfather, as it ever was about Stuart.
The end result is a mixture of biography, memoir, history, and dissection of the writing process. 
  • The "memoir that started out as a parenting manifesto": a woman whose daughters taught her a thing or two
Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
Amy Chua
The very nature of memoir sometimes makes it challenging to evaluate the story being told and not the person telling that story. Amy Chua makes it especially challenging with her parenting memoir, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother; particularly in the audio version, which she reads herself, she seems quite aware that she’s opening herself to a lot of potentially negative personal judgment. But she doesn’t seem entirely uncomfortable with that, either; as an attorney and law professor, as well as a mother, Chua is likely well acquainted with both passing judgment and being subjected to it.
The original premise that led Chua to write ...Tiger Mother--that Chinese mothering practices are better than “Western” ones--is a pretty judgmental one, and if the book stuck to it more closely, it might have been judged even more harshly than it was by some readers. But along the way, it develops into a much more personal story--one that contains many revealing, unflattering details undermining that original premise.
  • The "celebrity" memoir (that doesn't quite "tell all"): a woman who (mostly benevolently) wields the power to make people laugh
Bossypants
Tina Fey
Fey’s recollections of career and life milestones are mixed with observations about life, society, and the challenges of being a woman who loves both her work and her child in early 21st-century America. Bossypants may strike some readers as being a little short on personal insight and reflection, but Fey’s opinions on the bigger picture are a worthwhile trade. It’s not entrirely clear to me whether she self-identifies as a feminist, but her worldview is clearly informed by feminism. As befits the title of the book, Fey does spend much of the second half discussing work, and repeatedly expresses a preference for the collaborative management style that tends to be more associated with women; she is a boss, as creator of 30 Rock, and is fully aware of the perks, the stress, and the responsibility that go with being the source of 200 people's paychecks.
But it’s not all serious gender politics or management theory - in fact, most of it’s not serious gender politics or management theory. Most of it's humorous and real. 
Many thanks to the hardworking members of the Biography/Memoir panel (I'm sure the other panels worked just as hard, but I can only speak for mine!)--Alyce, Candace, Colleen, and Nadia--who have had to make the tough choices from this crop of worthy contenders, and we're not quite done yet!

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Song Lyric Saturday: "Wonder"



Welcome to Song Lyric Saturday, a new feature for my NaBloPoMo month of March--and it may make occasional appearances even after that's over, but we'll see how it goes. I'm not a big fan of short stories in traditional form, but when they're set to great melodies and last for under four minutes, sometimes they really work for me. 


In a week when we observed International Women's Day, ten days into Women's History Month, it shouldn't be a wonder that the song of the day is Natalie Merchant's tribute to healthy self-esteem and female empowerment, "Wonder." With love, with patience, and with faith, each of us can make our way.

Doctors have come from distant cities
Just to see me
Stand over my bed
Disbelieving what they're seeing 

They say I must be one of the wonders
Of god's own creation
And as far as they can see they can offer
No explanation 

Newspapers ask intimate questions
Want confessions
They reach into my head
To steal the glory of my story 

They say I must be one of the wonders
Of god's own creation
And as far as they can see they can offer
No explanation 

O, I believe
Fate smiled and destiny
Laughed as she came to my cradle
Know this child will be able
Laughed as my body she lifted
Know this child will be gifted
With love, with patience and with faith
She'll make her way 

People see me
I'm a challenge to your balance
I'm over your heads
How I confound you and astound you
To know I must be one of the wonders
Of god's own creation
And as far as you can see you can offer me
No explanation 

O, I believe
Fate smiled and destiny
Laughed as she came to my cradle
Know this child will be able
Laughed as she came to my mother
Know this child will not suffer
Laughed as my body she lifted
Know this child will be gifted
With love, with patience and with faith
She'll make her way

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